As hard as it might be, it is time for you to stop shoveling that sweet treat you love so much when you are upset because it is not the best way to get your ex boyfriend back. In fact, it is a pretty good way to keep him away. It is normal to want to eat when you are upset or depressed. Both girls and guys tend to do it. You have to get up, clean yourself up, and be strong if you want to win your man’s heart again.
You Start By Simply Going Away
You have to remind yourself that you did break up with your man for a reason. Whether or not you agree with the reason the relationship ended, the reason is still there. You need to give him some space to get over whatever he is going through. You also have to keep in mind he cannot begin to understand what being apart from you feels like if you never give him the space he needs. He needs time to miss you if you are going to try to win him back.
Go Have Some Fun
You don’t want him to know you curled up in your room for two weeks, ate ice cream, and watched re-runs of your favorite television show. In time, you want him to know that you do miss him and you do love him, but him breaking up with you did not shatter your world. You need to get out and have a good time. You have to try not to think about him for a while. This is part of the healing process. This is also to make sure you still want him after you get over the pain of the break up.
Relationships will work out and you will find your way back together if it is meant to be. Once you have had time to heal and he has had his space, you can talk about the relationship together. You just need to keep in mind that you cannot force him to be with you. If he’s forced into the relationship neither one of you will be happy.